Dear Gary,

I have to say that I thought ‘Swimming for Parents’ was a terrific read.  At first glance, I thought that I am not really going to learn much here.  I am certainly not a new parent to swimming but neither am I an ‘old’ one – well I might be in age but not in my experience as a ‘Swim Mum’.  My son is 10 years old and has been swimming for a few years.   When I continued to read it I realised what an invaluable book this is.  I was particularly interested in the section on how we, as parents, measure our children’s successes.  We NEVER expect anything from our son and he knows that we love him no matter what.  However, as I quietly looked around our Club and others at the last Swimming Meet I kept my ears open and realised just how many parents tell their child how to swim the race and then, when they don’t come up to their parents expectations, they berate them – and in front of their friends.  I find that VERY sad indeed.  Interestingly enough, those parents did not buy the book!!!

I recommend this book to every swimming parent, especially those who have already had a few years involvement in the sport.

Simone

Hi Gary,

Just wanted to drop you a line and say how impressed I am with your book. Like yourself I have been involved in high level swimming myself. I am now entering into the coaching role but also find myself in a parent’s role as well. I read your book with two perspectives, a parent and a coach.

Swimming and for that matter all sports could be enjoyed so much more for the athlete if parents took a step back and realised it's not about them. But also there are times when athletes will find it a chore and hard work because it is. A champion isn't made with a magic wand. It is pure hard work, determination and dedication from all areas.

This book you have written will hopefully guide parents in a way of helping the athlete, rather than the athlete feeling like they have to please the parent to feel loved.

Congratulations and good luck with the future of your book. You need to get it out there as a handbook for all new parents when they join at club level.

All the very best

Janelle Pallister (nee Elford)

Hey Gary,
 
Thanks for the info on your new book. I have read a copy of your book and think it is fantastic!! It gives so much credence to everything coaches and clubs try to convey to the parents.
 
It is great that parents now have a resource. A great read, which I know all parents of the kids I coach will be reading.
 
Regards,

Brian Rodriquez
Head Coach
Mornington Peninsula Flyers Swimming Club Inc.

Dear Gary,

Thank you for writing this book.  All of the information was fantastic and I couldn't put it down.
I have three children who love to swim.  They are 10, 8 and 4 years.  The older two girls are in the local Swimming Club. Our club is a real family club with enthusiastic members and very supportive coaches.  Your book has really helped me to understand how my kids may be feeling.  One of my daughters has a deep passion for the sport and your book has helped my husband and me to understand how she is feeling and what she is going through.

Thank you again,

Leanne Sommers
Victoria, Australia